I just feel money wise I am not a priority to my h. It's like I come last. Does that make sense.
I also felt really hurt when he says I have to pay some friends that really helped me out. OUCH! Like I didn't really help him out and do I really care that he pays them back first. That hurt!
Also the rent comment really got to me. Like his rent is more important than paying our mortgage. That is how I felt. I just don't think he gets the financial picture.
It's like I will give you something when/if I can. That makes me angry and resentful.
Am I wrong here or what should be my thought process.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
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