54, I haven't read your sitch, but I will, but from your signature it says your W came home "just for the kids". I wouldn't discount that. When I told my kids what was going on, my W tried to lay a guilt trip on S16 by saying (after he was ripping her to shreds) "I guess I'll just be a lonely old woman then". She then told me a day later that she would stay around and try "for the kids". Not what you want to hear, but still an opportunity. If you can take it, it gives the opportunity to show her just what she'll be missing and losing and also to work on you with her as a front row observer.
Sorry for the hijack Lost.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
