Originally Posted By: Trying2live
I'm in So cali! Look up the Ronald Regan Library.......

I've been to the RRL - bought H a t-shirt last time I was there. I love SCal. Maybe sometime I can go back. I was going to take a road trip from Nov 21-Nov 26th as I have like a month of vacation to take b4 end of year. And the 26th is my birthday - what a wonderful/horrible day that will be. H now does not want to go to Thanksgiving and wants to tell his p's so they don't go either. \:\(
He wants my answer and I just want him to go - plain and simple but well we know what he wants.
I think he may not want to go because I said something that would make him really uncomfortable in front of my p's - I said I told my p's I could accept him back if he had a PA but not an EA. He said at that time how could you say that, what does that say about me, how can I look at your parents. And now he asked his C and she said how do I think he can step foot in my p's house after I said that? Well I told him I lied and hadn't said that but at the time I told him I said that I was so distraught I was saying anything to get him to stay.
Now I'm not sure but he may be a little less disgusted about going now that I hadn't said that.
But I'm sure he still doesn't want to go.


Jen
Me 32
H 35
Married 8yrs 3/11/2000 - Together 10 yrs
No Children

1st Bomb - 7/1999
2nd Bomb - 8/2004
3rd A - 10/2006
4th A & Bomb - 10/12/08

Done sweeping things under the rug, I need to start doing something...But what?