My kids are older. I would not have told them if they were not emotionally (and physically) adults. But like I said, they already KNEW so my telling them was just validating that THEY weren't nuts.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.