Thanks Max. I think I see in my sitch a lot of you and Breakaway and WDID.

You guys all seem to recognize that NC is needed and you make your effort and sometimes you slip, but it doesn't mean you don't recoginze it and then make more of an effort to end contact for ever.

And I see that in my wife.

Of course, maybe I'm a (what's H4H say?) Stoop, but I have to have that faith that she's TRYING because if I don't, then I won't be able to be the H she wants and the H I want to be.

She'll get there.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.