Spent some time with the W yesterday. Did not bring up her car being at OM's house on Sat. I did not feel I was in a good state of mind to talk with her about it. Although I know it needs to come out because I was getting flashes of anger and wanting to tell her to get the h@ll out of my life.
She called this morning to say that SD17 got pulled over doing 78 in a 55. He let her go to get to school and went to talk with my W and wanted to know to write her a ticket or let us handle it. Decided to have him write her under ten, does not affect our ins. and should teach her she can't get away with stuff due to my job.
I am spending the day with a friend working on some cars and having a dinner with some other people tonight. I had to go to the house to pick up a tool and went by OM's house. W's car was there, his was not. They must have went somewhere.
I left her a note saying that we needed to talk face to face. A little about the growing anger and resentment that is taking place. Also put in about sat morning, so I guess now she will know. This stuff needs to get aired in person.
I sent her a text a little while ago.
M: Deputy is going to write her for 9 over left you a note on the kitchen table
Her reply a little later
W:Ok. Sorry I'm not home. OM wanted to go talk. I understand if ur upset. I do love u!!!
Interesting way of showing it. I can't choose her actions, so that leaves it up to me. It will probably be a couple days until I talk to her again. Busy tonight, working nights weds and thur. Most likely a good thing right now. Time to put her out of my mind and enjoy the rest of the day. Maybe I will find that elusive orange can.
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