I for one am not going to tell the kids any part of the truth except to say that Mommy is making her own choices; we may not like them but she's a grown woman. I will also let them know that this is NOT what I wanted because I believe that M is forever no matter how hard it may get. I made a vow before God and I intend to keep it. If she doesn't, then that's her prerogative.
Later in life after they've grown; if they have questions, I'll confirm or deny as necessary. I really don't think that they need to know all the details.
I could change my mind later; but right now that's how I'm going to roll.
