I was advised by our MC to NOT expose affair to my kids when we met in private. Even if LIS (and myself) do end up D....is it our jobs to paint the kids moms as "bad"? That would crush them!? Thoughts?

H 34
W 31
M 11yrs
D 11
D 9

6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage
6-11-08 I found out about OM

7-16thru7-18 she tried didnt work!

8-17 home (just for kids until the end??)