I apologize. I don't want to attack YOU. It sounds like what H4U is saying is that his wife is getting this on her own...and he knows she's trying.
I know it's addictive, brother, got the tracks to prove it. I agree that contact is bad, but to look at in the best way, that if it happened it ultimately will still work out. She can beat it.
As I said, I think H4U has a good and realistic attitude about the whole thing.
