Whew! You had me freaked out about mentioning DB'ing to her. Don't ever do that.
Again, you answered a call from her while you were out doing drinks, darts, and football. DON'T ANSWER EVERY CALL! Especially if you are out having some good "man-time".
Now, the miss me question...that's a toughie. Maybe something like,
"I do miss you. We used to have a lot of fun together. I'm keeping busy and filling in my spare time so I don't have to think too much about it. I do look forward to our camping trip. It'll be a nice change from the usual holiday muck."
Tells her you miss her, but you haven't laid down and died without her.
Maybe?
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."