I hear so many things from so many places! From this board, to books, to family members, to our C, to my kids (who I try to keep out of the middle). And I just second guess everything I do!
I have always been a person that wears my heart on my sleeve, and always been completely open to my H. So, "giving space", is so foreign to me! I try. I really do!! I even got a tatoo of the chinese konji symbol for "patience" (I almost got "strength" but I figured I actually had that, at least up to last week, but patience was what I really needed help with). H is so "conservative" if he ever sees the tatoo, he'll probably roll his eyes and say "See how different we are!" and use it as one more reason we shouldn't be together. [Although he did like the hummingbird I got several years ago when I was 40.
**Keep Breathing**
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd
