Kat, so sorry but you continue to show your strength though all this. I sure hope this doesn't cause you to have to move. The last thing your kids need is the physical upheaval on top of the emotional one they are already experiencing. I am sure XH will not recognize this either.
You are wise to realize it is not your role nor is it necessary for you to point out his deficiencies or try to change his ways. He is blind to what he is doing, and even more so if it is you pointing it out. You are a survivor and I am confident you can get through this.
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