Nice guy huh? Anyway, I think the point is, OM likes women to pursue him. And maybe my W is the one that did the pursuing. OM told his W that he tried to break it off with my W multiple times and she just kept pressuring him to get back together. Now I'm sure that could very likely be a story to get his W to not divorce him, but it could be true. If he's the player we suspect, if my W started pressuring him for more, then he probably did want to end it and just move on to the next victim.
You have to understand how guys like that work...they get people to pursue them. I have a quote from a book somehwere I have to find for you. I'm sure OM is lying to his wife about trying to push your W off. Get real. He sounds like he's lying when his lips are moving.
