Faith - I know you are right. I just felt like I had to vent again to her decision making - I know that it will have no impact. Why - I do not know.
But I feel better, knowing she knows how I feel. I've always hated the concept of what's done is done and move forward with your single life - because she is not dead and irreversible, we are separated and one change of heart and things could change (even though 98% of me knows it will not, 2% of me thinks things could be different in a couple of years). I know I can't do anything about it though and need to move forward.
I vent on the forums as well - But some things I want her to know.
Me:40 / W:33 / D:3 T:7.5/M:4 D Day: 1/24/08 Legal Separated: 6/12/08 BF who sleeps over: confirmed 11/10/08 Suspect BF pre-dates D Day
