Maybe I should be in piecing part 2?

[Hope4us]

I know what you're saying about vacation, but we've been getting along great at home also. I'd like to think that a lot has to do with me working on the things that bugged her (and I realize now I do/did need to work on for not just her but everyone).

I think W is the one to do the contacting (if it's happening). OMW told me his ego is HUGE. So I just picture him sitting back loving the fact that my W may be contacting him. And I'm sure he just plays her even more because he obviously gets off on women needing him. Ok another quick story and then it's coffee break time.

OMW told me one time about 10 years ago, OM told her he was going to the store. 10 hours later when he wasn't home she went looking for him and found him at a bar with some hot blonde hanging all over him. OMW told him it was time to come home and he told her to F off that he was staying.

Nice guy huh? Anyway, I think the point is, OM likes women to pursue him. And maybe my W is the one that did the pursuing. OM told his W that he tried to break it off with my W multiple times and she just kept pressuring him to get back together. Now I'm sure that could very likely be a story to get his W to not divorce him, but it could be true. If he's the player we suspect, if my W started pressuring him for more, then he probably did want to end it and just move on to the next victim.