2008 = Crazy Year (Seriously? 17?)

[Hope4us]

I guess if it was me, I'd wait to tell the kids until after Lost see's how his latest communications to OMW play out. I waited until I was ready to file for divorce before telling the kids because I wanted to spare them the hurt. But once I'd decided to file, there was no way I would lie to them about the reasons. If the kids finding out helped save our marriage, great, but it wasn't the main reason for telling them.

But I will say, if it DOES help save the marriage, it's a da*n sight better than what a divorce does to kids.