So Break, in your opinion (and anyone else that wants to comment), was she NC for about 3 months and we started to connect and it scared her and she contacted him when we got back and she was in a funk for a week or so but then we had another great weekend together and she's back to NC now?
I'm sure connecting might have scared her. There's this...my H and I get along GREAT on vacation. In fact, if we never were at home we could live peacably, LOL. I am not kidding. Home is where the stress is.
You're assuming SHE contacts HIM. Guys like that, or any guy really...somehow know just when to appear. Just think about dating. Remember dating? And breaking up? Who ever broke up one day and never had some regrettable conversations with the person later. Just because you're married, doesn't mean some of that sh!t doesn't play itself out.
Just think! He has to defend his bullsh!t and lies. Trust me, trust me, trust me. Brain chemicals aside...he has no leg to stand on. He CANNOT win.
There is also the law of diminishing returns. The "fix" or "high" is spoiled. It's like finding a bug in your dessert. And he's a big ole cockroach.
