Puppy, thank you for the advice re: confronting H and simply repeating my line. I need a game plan for these very emotional situations.
I agree that MCing would be the best option, but his getting IC is still more constructive than simply using OW to deal with MLC or whatever his issues may be. I am a little concerned that it is IC instead of MC because MC is more focused on the marriage and IC will be focused on just H, rather than all 3 lives in our family. I am doing IC only because he will not do MC.
I was thinking about installing a keylogger on his computer just to know what is happening with OW, is he still seeing her, etc. because he doesn't tell me anything. (I actually tried to install one yesterday but it did not work) But now that he is getting IC, I feel like this would be the wrong thing to do, and it is almost like I have compassion for him. What is wrong with me?
