So if an A happens, not becuase a person is totally miserable in their marriage but for one of the other reasons, does it make sense that once the behavior that led to the affair is changed that the A partner will become insignificant and the wayward spouse will find their way back to the marriage?
I was totally miserable. But, just the letter I got from H today made me think OM Who? (It's posted on my thread) But you couldn't have told me that at the beginning of this year.
So I think WHATEVER the reason, if the reasons are addressed...it can happen. That the A partner can become insignificant. And her A partner is a loser. So there you go.
