But, I was saying to at least AVOID it because of the reasons I named.
IF he is going to,....then, he can explain to his wife why he feels he needs to expose (trip?) and to give her a chance to stop all that she is doing and recommit. At least give her a chance.
But, like I was saying, unless there is a need, I wouldn't. He has the proof for later if she even spins it around on him. I just hate to see the kids having to deal with this issue at their age. They can understand it, but if they don't have to deal with it right now, it would be for the better. My opinion.