I just would really like to see it avoided if possible. lis's kids are in their teens years....man, they do NOT need this crap during the hormone time of their life. She may "spin it" later but bottom line, lis has proof of what is true and can show them at any time some day in the future if need be. He can explain to his wife why he will need to expose (the Hawaii trip) if she doesn't stop seeing OM. Then, he goes from there.
