well, the police just left AGAIN. He showed up without calling or anything to get his stuff he didn't take last night. I told him I would put it in the garage and he could take it when I got done doing that. He proceeded to bang on the door for about 2 minutes with the kids wondering what was going on and yelling thru the door he was going to call the police, then left. I text him about 5 minutes later to let him know his stuff was in the garage and to bring the police with him.
He came back, and when I refused to let him have a walk thru of the house, he called the police.
The police came, I told them that as long as someone was with him and he didn't take anything he wasn't supposed to like he did the night before, I did not have a problem with the walk thru. While they did that, I went thru the stuff in the garage gathering the rest of his stuff up and putting it in a pile. The one thing he was looking for and couldn't find in the house, I found in the garage.
Absolutely stupid. The whole thing could've been avoided if he had simple text or call me to let me know when he was coming instead of just showing up and causing the scene. Luckily I had just put my D down for her nap right before the police showed up, but my S was still awake. And they both witnesses dada banging on the door and mama not letting him in. My neighbors all got to see him pack his crap up and then come back with TWO police cars.
Thanks for being so civil about it a**hole.


Me- 29
X - 30
M - 7.5 years
Final April 2009
S - 2005
D - 2007


Don't make someone a priority who only makes you an option.

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