Maybe I should be in piecing part 2?

[Hope4us]

WDID, I have so many questions about the affair, but probably not what you'd think. Yes, I do have a few questions about the sex part of the affair, not what they did because I know what W does when she's interested in someone, but just a few things (like did they have unprotected sex and did he want her to do anything twisted because in talking with his W she told me he wanted her to get other people involved, etc). But mainly I need to know stuff about where, how etc because I NEED that to fill in the holes that were my life for a year.

I do think we need to discuss how she let herself get into the place that allowed this to happen even though she was warned about OM being a player just a few days after she started working in the same building as him. I need her to tell me what my contribution was to her state of mind that let it happen. Because I know if we can't get to the bottom of these things, then I'll never feel comfortable that it won't happen again.

I'm not going to beat her up and hold this over her head forever. I feel like I've mostly forgiven her although I don't know if I will ever fully forgive her if she doesn't come to grips with how she let herself go there, KWIM?