Thank you for the advice, Dash, and the push to take control of the situation.
When I first read the DR, the MLC chapter seemed more applicable to me. I did not know about his A although I did suspect it for quite some time. I need to re-read DR and look at this forum for advice on handling EA/PA.
H has refused MC, but today he called to let me know he made appt for IC on Thursday! This is good news, right? Better he confide in a professional rather than OW. I wish I could be a fly on the wall during that session. I would love to know what he has been doing, who he has been doing it with, and more importantly, what his thoughts are about his life and marriage...
