YR, I'm very happy to see that you father made it home and is doing so well. It's great that your family is there to assist w/the cooking, etc. for a bit. You and you family will have so much to give thanks for on Thanksgiving this year.
My thoughts and prayers are w/you and your family. Tell your father to do exactly what his physician has told him to do. It's very important during the healing time to do exactly what has been prescribed. Your mother will need to take a rest break herself when your father is resting.
Again, I'm very happy to read your news today.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Thank you so much. Yes, dad is taking it very slow. I threatened him that I would get him if he didn't listen to the doctor. He just laughed. He is joking around on the phone so I know he is on the mend. What a relief!
Mom is taking it easy too. It just ran her down so much, but what does anyone expect after being married for almost 53 years, they take care of each other!!!! I love my family and I DO have alot to be thankful for!!!
just letting you know I've left updates on my thread...check it out....MAH......
And I'm glad your father is progressing well....it's very good news...
Treese
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
YR- I am so glad to hear that your father is doing well. I am sure your entire family is very relieved. I hope your father has quick and full recovery.
I hope your family is doing well, and your Dad getting better every day.
If you get a chance and can stop by my thread on the MLC board, I'd value your input. I've been having a very tough time and been feeling very hopeless and angry at myself. Did you backslide much in your sitch? Has you H told you what made the difference?
Anyway, thanks for your time.
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd
This may seem like a silly question, but I wondered. Did your H ever really come to see his contribution to the breakdown of your marriage? And more specifically actually voice that understanding? The reason I ask is that my H, like many men, has always had a tough time showing his real emotions and will say such things as "I didn't mean to hurt you", rather than "Boy was I messed up there." Ya' know what I mean?
I just wondered......
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd
