Just wanted to say that you are an inspiration to me. I'm feeling beaten down these days, but my situation isn't nearly as extreme as yours. You are a wonderful father. You have truly risen above it all, and have the presence of mind and spirit to be creative, positive, and healing. Rather than being consigned to victimhood, you have taken the initiative to be an outstanding parent and are consistently putting your children first. Bless you.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012