Is it possible that her resentment stems from H and OW creating a hostile work environment? Her H dies and she felt like quitting was the only option? Now she is missing the daily interaction of working with other people and she is angry with H and OW for putting her in this position? I read the article on TxMom's thread from Psychology Today about affairs and it said that the people who get the most enjoyment from infidelity aren't the participants, but the observers. It didn't say anyhting about the enablers and I would think that is what she might be feeling.
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A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.
