Surrendering to hope

[optimistwife]

It sounds like your life is settling into a little bit of normalcy. I like that you think that you are changing inside. That is a good thing when your old habits start to slip away.

I also struggle with wondering how long things so on with no real talk of resolution. You really don't want the R talk- but at some point it needs to get worked out about how things go forward- I guess... I would guess that we just can't ignore it and plow forward- or we'll be right back here in a few years.

Well- I guess welcome to a tentative stage three... More than friendship, but still feels like a long way from resolution. Kind of feels like dating someone, and there is still a risk that you might break up...

Lets just be happy that we've made it this far.