lets' say OM vanishes..they break up..something happens..then what say you??
thats a good question Mike. Right now, the way I'm feeling, wouldnt matter. Whats done is done. The OM was the deal breaker, that she chose him over me and our family and over her daughter having a mother and father together, is, in my books, unforgivable.
I think I would always have the fear that she'll do it again. That sometime down the road she'll get the grass-is-greener feelings and we'd be back at the same place.
I dont think I'd ever be able to trust what she says again, she's told so many blatant lies over the past 6 months - where she's going, who she's with, who she's talking to, the txting day and night and in the shower. She's told her lies to everyone, painted me as manipulative, abusive, etc etc - you know the story.
i'm a jealous basturd, things like this dont go away easy.
and right now, i just dont feel much for her. we're friendly, but not friends. and she makes it very clear that the interactions we have are for the sake of our daughter and the transition into seperate households.
so let's play what if..let's say she comes out of the fog..work with me here buddy...have you read any Gforce??? His whole sitch?? His W did the same..she had OM..she lied..she said and did things..he DB'd till the very last second..
you might want to read him..for what it's worth..
I'm like you..I know the drill..I've been there, done that..got a shirt..
things can change...if you and I can change then can't they??
