I commend you H4H. You did the right thing. I know how tough it must have been with your W getting calls and TM's from OM. And you know what? Even if your marriage doesn't make it, you were the bigger PERSON.
And you relating that your W said on the phone "yes Roger is here", OM is worried. GOOD. That kind of worry in him will put tension in their fun. Right now, he KNOWS you were the one she could count on. Hence the later conversation where there was obvious tension on the call.
Just keep being the better MAN. You know you are. We know you are.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.