MIL had her follow up appt. yesterday from her bladder tumor surgery. She does have cancer. They found it in the tumor and in some surrounding tissue. They have to go back in 6 weeks and do another surgery, cutting out more tissue through another layer or two of muscle....that sucks. No mention of chemo or radiation at this point, just plans for another surgery before Christmas.
FIL had his 4-month checkup from when he had prostate cancer 2 years ago. When he went 4 months ago his PSA was up from 0 to 0.75, I guess it is supposed to be zero? (that's what FIL said) Anyway yesterday when he went it was 3.5. They were concerned it jumped so much in 4 months...he has to meet with an oncologist next week, and they want to start him on some sort of treatment where you put a pill under the skin and it blocks testosterone, which is feeding the cancer, they think....
No surprise H had a raging migraine again last night (actually by the way he kept rubbing his neck it was prob. tension headache). He slept out on the couch, AGAIN....I brought him out an ice pack, he said thank you, this morning a kiss goodbye and ILY so on one hand not sleeping in same bed but on other hand I get the kiss goodbye...
Just going to pray for his parents and be as supportive as I can be. How often do a husband and wife both find they have cancer, on the same day?
