Nothing new, same old frustrations and still party

[thegoodfight]

Arthur,

I will share something that may help. My X lied to me recently did something I found very disrespectful. All I said the next day when she commented about something was, it is my responsibility when it comes to how you make me feel. I need to lower my expectations in regards to your actions, I can assure you I won't make the same mistake again.

Expect nothing from your X, and i can assure you in time you will no longer be dissapointed. Re set your boundries, do a quick deed and get off the house because you are Bat chitt crazy if you continue to pay for it my friend.

Plan your goals, re establish yourself and make your life with your children without her! Focus on you and your interaction with your kids. That is all you control the rest, dump it, it is a waste of time and emotional energy.

Like Mike said given time you will feel better, this doesn't last forever! But only you can decide how quickly you heal, it is in your hands and yours alone. If you are a spiritual person ask for help it will come. But ultimately what comes is something to show you how to heal yourself. God bless brother I am very sorry to hear of the emotional baggage you are still lugging around.

Time to lighten the load my friend, you can do it and you will! I have faith!