It's time for you to respect yourself. You are a good person. A good mother. A good wife. You did do your best, you always did what you thought was right. Be proud of what you've done, and of the kids you've raised. And make sure that you give yourself the respect that you deserve!
Treese, I am sooo very sorry that things have went the way they have for you. I was so praying for better days...maybe they still will come, just not the way you planned. The above quote is SOOO true. People have said the very same things to me. And they are right. BUT, they are empty words. Even though I know they are true they don't change how I feel. They don't make it any easier. I really do understand your pain. Keeping up with your sitch has almost been a mirror image of my own.
But I do believe that above everything else, we really do have to do what is right for US. And there really is NOTHING we can do to change our H's minds. You have to pick your self up and move forward, where ever that may be. Do what is BEST for TREESE. Find that glimmer of hope for a better life for YOU. And move towards it Treese...
(((treese))) and best wishes TOH
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!
