Kelaaron, Good grief, I know my H's family seems a bit weird to me, but your H's family sounds downright *evil* at worst, badly warped at best! Your FIL got into bed with you?!? Inconceivable!! I don't blame you for wanting to get away from those people! Do they live close to you? Can you just gracefully say that H can have whatever R he likes with them but you are not going to be involved any more, and you will only see them when absolutely necessary (weddings and such, maybe)?
Peace, Dawn
Me 45/H 47, no kids Together since 1985; M/1992 Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001 Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues H left 11/24/08 minimal contact, no legal action http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1
