Here is what has been going on lately - I went back home for the weekend - Ex W hang out with me and the kids - this is something that doesn't happen very often - She cried - she hugged me - she asked me if I was willing to go back together (I didn't answer yes or no - I said that it would not be an easy road and I would need to see some real effort on her side, otherwise I am good where I am now). Now the confusing part - I asked if things with OM are not doing too well - and she said that Nooooo - things are doing VERY WELL. Plus - she just came from a romantic trip with OM - few days ago she even had the kids sleep over at his house - TODAY they went all together to eat outside and she hinted he asked her to merry. Now, what is going on? I am totally confused - can somebody explain me why she is behaving this way? A year has passed since the separation - the divorce got final - she says OM is such a great guy - then she has this "testings" to see if I am available - but she is not doing ANYTHING to show she is ready for a change.... WHAT IS GOING ON!!!
