Passing on info to all my friends. Not sure if you've read it if you have sorry in advance. some really good stuff on this article.

Go here: http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/index.php?term=19930501-000027&page=1

Me-38 H-38
Married 18years
Daughter-17 & Son-9
Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08
Left home 5/08/08
Moved in with OW 08/01/08

The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family.
-- Lee Iacocca