bah.loosing my temper. came out even more grousy than i feel.

youre' still doing the same old same old thing though trixi.
you're treating your husband like a boy, and so he's behaving exactly like a little boy.

Some time, your little boy is going to have to learn to act like a MAN. he'll only do that, when you start treating him like one.

if a boy says "this is tough, i cant decide", you might try to help him figure it out, and "teach" him good decisions from bad ones.
if a man says that, you should expect him to be a man, use his head, and make a good decision. and then be responsible for his own decisions.

he's a man, not a little boy. he knows right from wrong. he just wants to stay a little boy for as long as you will let him.

time to cut the apron strings, "mommy".


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle