bah.loosing my temper. came out even more grousy than i feel.
youre' still doing the same old same old thing though trixi. you're treating your husband like a boy, and so he's behaving exactly like a little boy.
Some time, your little boy is going to have to learn to act like a MAN. he'll only do that, when you start treating him like one.
if a boy says "this is tough, i cant decide", you might try to help him figure it out, and "teach" him good decisions from bad ones. if a man says that, you should expect him to be a man, use his head, and make a good decision. and then be responsible for his own decisions.
he's a man, not a little boy. he knows right from wrong. he just wants to stay a little boy for as long as you will let him.
time to cut the apron strings, "mommy".
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle