So here's the latest. I came home an hour late tonight. I went to a friend's house to hang out after class cuz I got out early. Granted, I didn't call him and let him know I was going to be late. But he text me at the time I usually get home asking when I would be home. I said I stopped at a friend's house, I'd be home in a bit.
I got home, he had packed up one my comp's. Refused to give it back. He trashed it last year with all the crap he downloaded on it and I'm the one who got it up and running again. I told him I would call the police. He said go ahead and he refused to leave until the police got there. So I called. They came. While waiting for them to get here, I saw that all the stuff that I had packed up for him, ie clothes, and asked him to take with him tonight were still sitting downstairs!!! He only took the computer! And he put it in a different vehicle, so he couldn't even give it back to me when the police asked him to.
So they asked him to leave. The computer is a civil issue, has to be settled in court. I knew that, I just wanted him to leave!!!
And you know why he refused to leave and started all this bs tonight!? Because he talked to his friend who I was with tonight! And his friend mentioned where he was going and who would be there. No, nothing is going on between me and his friend. I stopped at a girlfriend's house, she is seeing his friend. Can we say jealous!? Because his friend hangs out with me. That's why, and they've called me up several times before, even before he left this last time, asking to hang out with me and not him.
And I did awesome tonight! I was one of the first people to do their draws and I got a perfect draw! And then I hung out with some friends, including a guy I'm a little bit interested in (not the one friend, a different one), a couple beers and had a great night until I came home and had to deal with this bs!
AAAARRRGGGHHH!!! Why can't he let me be! He's moved on. I am trying to do the same. Why can't he just let me be! He even brought up our friends. I'm ok with what they're doing but not ok with what he's doing. They're the ones I talked about earlier, having an affair with the best friend of the H. That's their business, not mine. Do I agree with what they've done? No. Am I going to stop being around them because of it? No. She sought me out for advice. What kind of person would I be if I didn't give my opinion to a friend who asked for it? Other people have turned their back on her, she needs a friend right now. That's what I'm being. I've told her I don't agree with it...I told them both that tonight. I've also told them that the affair isn't the problem. It's a symptom of the problem. Would C help them? Maybe. Each sitch is different. I'm not there, I dunno. But you won't know unless you try it. But why does he have to bring them up!? They're not part of OUR sitch!!! If he's going to fight about something, fight about something he knows...not about something that has anything to with us.
Sorry guys, I just had to vent. He tried ruining my good night.


Me- 29
X - 30
M - 7.5 years
Final April 2009
S - 2005
D - 2007


Don't make someone a priority who only makes you an option.

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