Hey T2L, You are right and too perceptive ...you need to go into the therapy field...

I have been busy the past few days but I think I have been a little depressed. I just think I miss my H. It is hard not being a part of his life anymore. It really bothered me that he got a promotion and never shared it. We were very tight when it came to successes for each of us at work. It hurts that he must have celebrated with OW and left me in the dark. I am the one that really helped him with his career and supported him getting his college degree. Makes me sad. I know it will pass but it sucks. I am proud of myself that I have been able to detach all weekend -- not even a text. I would like to tell H next time I see him that I know he was promoted, but in a good way and say I heard you got promoted - Congrats but not sure how he will take it.
I wish I could come for New Year,s but I should still be in CT. I probably will be spending the night with my Mom who is 84. It will be a long night especially knowing H will be with OW. My prayer for you is that your H will be home where he belongs by that time. Of course we know that is when the real work will begin. How I would relish that challenge...
I will calling you this week and sending you some e-mails about the script. You will make him quake in his boots!


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09