Trixi aka "The Pitbull who can't let go"

[Dom R]

I would like to validate his concerns, but also offer up possible solutions. I don't know if he tells me his fears so that I can actually try to address them with him and find a solution OR if he is just trying to create a moving target so I never can "win".

He's not "trying to make it so you can never win".
He just is putting no effort into HELPING you win. Or to put it a more appropriate way, "putting no effort into a positive, exclusive, committed relationship for both of you".

He's being 100% selfish, and is doing what he wants, for him.
Which is: doing exactly what you are doing now.

YOU DONT NEED TO "HELP HIM" ANY MORE, SO QUIT TRYING!!! HE DOESNT NEED "HELP", HE NEEDS TO GIVE A CRAP ABOUT YOU!!

Stand back, look at what has worked in the last 48 hours in that reguard. Look and what has NOT WORKED, over the last weeks.

Then quit doing what doesnt work, and do what does work?!?!?!!

WHAPS TRIX WITH A 3x6, cause the 2x4's aint working!

Can you tell i'm a little frustrated? with you an me both.
GRRRRrrrrr