Originally Posted By: FRANCIS
Thanks marriedCrazy,

I've dediced to go on meds and also concentrate more at work, I've been dating someone but its not working as planed,the woman im dating is putting too much pressure on me to make a decision regarding our reletionship, I like her a lot but can deal w/the drama.

Thanks

Francis


Hey Francis... I guess i am a bit confused as to what it is you are looking for here. You have been down this road before right? Yet you are also dating someone else right now?

I am quite surprised that your L hasn't told you that you don't need to be seeing anyone until your D pushes through. You are a partner in a business and are risking quite a bit by having an affair. And yes, it is an affair.

I think that SG hit the nail on the head a while back here and that maybe you need to take some time and figure out exactly what you want right now. I think it is hard for folks here to give you any direction without knowing exactly where you want to end up.

What I would tell you is that you need to pick a path. Then you need to move to a forum that suits your path. If your done with your marriage then you are more than welcome to join us in Surviving.

Personally, I would love to give you some direction... I just have no idea where your heading so can't really offer up anything more than this right now.


Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09