Well chicki....STBX responded to my detachment with an email outlining what he thought was a fair settlement for our D. When I got it I felt the pain of moving towards our final seperation, but then gradually it faded. I will wait about a week to respond to his unfair proposal with one that I feel is more balanced. Sad that when they dont get their way they lash out. I had a feeling that I would be getting that email soon. Sad thing is, the @sshole could not even wait one more week for me to be done with Chemo before wanting to talk about the divorce. One day, when he wakes up, he is going to feel sooooo horrible for his actions. I say GOOD!
lwb, I spent the weekend up in Columbia with my brother. He was the one I moved to when the A came out. My SIL and I went shopping and I bought myself some cute things....she kept commenting on how skinny I am. Yeah me! Then I went and saw "the secret life of bees" with some friends that I made up there and had a glass of wine afterwards. It felt great to feel so loved and secure. When I came back, my PMA was so high that I felt like "I am woman, hear me roar!!!!" I think that was why I was able to just walk in w/o STBXH effecting me in any way.
YOu all have been so kind to me. Thank you for being there every time I needed to pick myself back up. It is because of the strength and wisdom that I find here that I have been able to navigate through this journey through h#ll. You all have a special place in my heart.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
