BTW--I'm neither strong nor courageous. I have pretty much folded under the pressure. I'd be happy to smack your OW--where's she from?! My H won't be in St. Louis; he's on call in the hospital on Thanksgiving. I think most of the rest of the family will be there, tho; the BIL and SIL live in Chesterfield. Altho the SIL and BIL here may not go since her father was just buried. If that's the case, D won't want to go. I hope that's what happens.
Thanks for the thoughts and prayers. Same to you!
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012