The courts will be hard on him. Don't think for a second that he is happy. How can he be when his world is crumbling all around him? He is not going to show you that things are bad, instead he is going to put on a big show for you.
Telling you that you may not get as much as you think, well, let the judge be the ruling authority of that one as it is not for your h to decide.
I think your h is in for a very rude awakening.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
