Glam OH upside thanks for your support Sir I think I needed to push H against a wall to see if he would file or maybe I thought (eventhough I knew better) that the threat would wake him up! or maybe it was my way out..anyway
He filed..in june then never answered my L counter petition I dont know..at this point, what to do I realize my chances for Reconciliation are slim ive waited for 21 months here part of me feels if my H wants to return one day, a D wont be the thing to stop him and if it isnt in the cards for us..if our M is over forever then it is in my best interest to get D and get everything legal and also not be responsible for any debt he may have..also to start moving on this D is closure for me I do not want to be M to this man as he is and there is no guarantee he will change in the next year or ever thanks for your input peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow