Glam OH upside
thanks for your support
Sir
I think I needed to push H against a wall to see if he would file
or maybe I thought (eventhough I knew better) that the threat would wake him up!
or maybe it was my way out..anyway

He filed..in june then never answered my L counter petition
I dont know..at this point, what to do
I realize my chances for Reconciliation are slim
ive waited for 21 months here
part of me feels if my H wants to return one day, a D wont be the thing to stop him
and if it isnt in the cards for us..if our M is over forever then it is in my best interest to get D and get everything legal
and also not be responsible for any debt he may have..also to start moving on this D is closure for me
I do not want to be M to this man as he is and there is no guarantee he will change in the next year or ever
thanks for your input
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow