Divorced but hoping to Reconcile

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I wonder if maybe you need to look at some parenting books for divorced parents?

I guess you could say something like "Mom and Dad are living in separate houses but I will always be there if you need me."

You could mention to XW and ask if you could talk to D on telephone?

You sound as if you have really made changes in yourself and you speak of your wife lovingingly. I am glad for you and I do hope that things go in the way you want.