Is this worth saving, or am I only fooling myself?

[faithrunner]

Peace is so important. Once you reach that point, if ever things get upsetting or feel out of control you know you can get back to that peaceful place. Like home base.

I don't know if you're a visual person, but I read on someone's thread that they visualize their W as a confused neighbor whenever they spend time together as a family. It keeps you from taking their actions or behavior personally.

I'm not sure if my H's EA is still going on or not. So, I have a constant battle of looking around for evidence or not. For the past three weeks I have successfully avoided snooping and it helps me stay peaceful. I think that I would have serious reservations if H wanted to reconcile (again, in my case), and I know that I'll have to wait for that very day to know how I'll feel about it. Until then, I think it's smart to know what your limits would be, and what your deal-breakers are.

Have a good night!