Coming from someone who did do that guys, I don't think it works. lol I think each spouse is diff, but when I pulled a 180, I went 2 years without ANYTHING! I don't think he was in heaven per say, I think he thought >> Wow, what a nice marriage now, my life is perfect. I'm not even sure he noticed there was no sex. All he noticed was there was no more arguing or crying, weeeeeeeeeee for him.. :S