After he got home from work yesterday, he was laying face down on floor, watching TV with our son. Said he was feeling sick because he has not been eating well lately. I think he was sick with a case of the guilts!
Puppy, I like your idea of setting boundaries, it is a lot more empowering than saying nothing at all. The problem is, if I say "I can't live in a marriage where my husband..." he will just say "are you asking me to move out?" and then he could very well do that. Not what I want right now, but a few more weeks of this and I will be showing him the door out.
I was excited and thought it was a good sign that he recently moved back in the bedroom with me. Now I no longer want to sleep in the same bed with him.
