Laurie,

Yea, I certainly can. I would love to try and refocus so this is good for me.

One of my past goals started to get a baby step. so now I need to update it. The goal was : I would like my H to start talking about moving back in with each other. He actually mentioned it for the first time this past week end after 7 months of peicing. Yeah!!!

My Relationship goals Now:
Goal 1= for my H to speak of moving back in together again (by buying and fixing up my G-ma's old house - it would be perfect for us).
Goal 2= To not say its ok, if he blows me off. The next time it happens, I again need to stay busy and act as if. Then afterwards when he sees me I will not say that I understand but rather I will let him know its not really ok but that I am glad to see him.
Goal 3=To spend more quality nights together this week than last week. At least 4-5 would be nice.

Let me know what you think
TIPPER